For some reference, me(22) and my boyfriend(20) have been together for about 6 months. I work a full time job and he hasn’t quite found a job yet, which has left me to cover literally 100% of everything and anything we do. I have a somewhat stressful job at the moment due to me starting not long ago and sometimes I have to let off some steam. We don’t live together and he lives about 30 minutes away from me and sometimes after a long day, I just don’t feel like having to make the trip to his house especially 99% of the time it being during the rush hour portion of the day. I also don’t want to seem like I’m just seeing him for sex because that’s just not the type of person I am. He’s also an extremely jealous type. It took me 5 months for him to be comfortable with me to start going to the gym alone. The last time I masturbated without telling him it started a huge fight, and I’m not a confrontational type. What should I do to help both of us in this situation?