33 Male gay, UK based , partned in a momogonos relationship.

I have always been interested, invested in the journey of self, to embrace & discover all aspects of one's physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual body of self from a mindful, holistic basis.

I love being a gay man, I've never spent one second of my life (truly) feeling any other way.

I'm discovering more and more about things I'm drawn to sexualy in energy and detail, and I find these things really can cross over. As much as I'm not into labels or boxes, I am fancinsted that there is a community of people or kinds of like minded, self awere men about some of these things.

I am just stating an open discussion, and interested particularly in any one who shares my specific list of kinks, fetish, intruiged by individual journyies & learning experience.

Recently realised I am certainly sapiosexual / and potentially demisexual when it comes to sexual attraction. For me the most satisfying of sexual experience is based on a deep connection, even if that connection is simply the same love of a shared kink, maybe the kink being intimacy. Of course being in love enhances love making, however I'm not saying In the past i needed to be in love to have sex. However my kinks and sexual attraction are nothing without the intamcy and love they pocess.

I am fascinated by the intellectual side of kink and sexuality. I'm really grounded when it comes to fantasy Vs reality and understand and respect that with Safe boundaries, consenting adults can express their kinks with sexual freedom, and of course 18 plus with consent.

My two biggest forms of kinks are male feet/foot worship, as the sub foot worshiper and the second and promonmint is dad/son role play/erotica/fantasy (18 plus) but less classic Dom dad/sub son more an erotic intense, kinky, father figure bond etc mostly with a foot fetish edge.

I love the idea of taking an incredibly masculine, loving, unconditional bond like dad/son and putting into a romantic, kinky, tender, sensual setting where dad/son | bro/bro become lovers, and explore kink, especially with a foot fetish or through foot worship, the porn rise that echos this is crazy common too, although too often of a classic Dom/sub nature based on a power balance, I find it so much more masculine and erotic where both are equal in power it's more about love then status.

I adore the intellectual side of this, and where certain kinks come from, especially given the taboo nature of the kink, I'm incredibly drawn to like minded, educated, intelligent male minds who have no interest in toxic forms of kink or misinterpretation of certain kinks and can enjoy for their own adult reasons of certain kinks/fetish.

I'm fancinsted by gay relationships that extend the dad son bond into domestic living, or even public spaces to increase a sexual / non sexual bond which both I find deeply erotic, but maybe only as an idea, for me it's taking the essence of an unconditional bond and making it erotic, purely for fantasy, intimacy and fun. Playing the fantasy deep for real is charging, yet always fantasy it's a strange safe enigma to me.

For those that are interested, I was always really drawn to my male feet, including my father's size 13 feet, big, strong, alpha, wide soles. They represent comfort and home. That along with another memory are certainly the seed to my foot fetish/dad fetish combined.

Through my teens and adult hood, those two kinks have always subtly been their and bloomed. I love lads feet, straight boys feet, middle Eastern feet, big feet, dad feet. And the fantasy of dad son dynamic on top of it, I just find it intensely intimate and erotic. To have a strong, loving dad with beautiful feet, who slowly acknowledges that the affection and emotional bond needs to turn physical, the kink in many ways is the intamcy. The turn on of course extends past feet as well.

Some call it osmolagnia : sexual arrosel of smells. Again this places into the feet fetish, and is very common and natural to be drawn to each others natural smells. Individual masc / lad cent in feet, toes, socks, boxers, briefs, Pitts, beards, chest etc I find the act of sniffing and discovering so erotic & deeply masculine.

Narratophilia I recently discovered is the arosel of dirty literature or erotic tales of tabo fantasy, this is another linked to my dad/son kink and sapiosexual as the intelligence to write so beautifully of certain fantasies for me fuels the imagination in a way porn takes away from.

Hearing of a dad's seduction in fine detail creates far more concrete balls then watching it, least for me any way.

So I find ATM the role play, the feet, the smells, the fatherly intellect and intimate unconditional taboo sensuality all crosses over in erotic holistic delight!

Lastly very drawn to discover more about trantic sex, And I really love watching man on man chiropractic clicks videos, seeing a huge muscle dad cradle a jock and correct is posture I find so relaxing haha

That's all folks , not sure if I'm seeking any particular reply, it was nice to log the self discovery

Thank you for reading, have a great day