Last night I woke up around 2am to get something to drink. My husband wasn’t on the couch (I always go to bed first. He is a night owl for sure.). So I started looking around the house for him. He wasn’t in the bathroom. I honestly thought he was in another room jerking off. I looked into the guest room and he walks around the bed (no pants on). At almost the exact same time, I see a guy duck and hide by the bed.

I was in total shock. I couldn’t believe what I had just seen. I stayed calm and just waited there for the guy to get his stuff together and leave. Afterwards my husband said he was sorry, that it had never happened before, and that the guy had only be there about 10 minutes. He said they were jerking each other dicks off. That there was no kissing, oral, etc. I just don’t know what to think honestly. We are not in an open relationship. What do I do now?