Hi all,

So I’m dating this guy for about 2 months now and then for some reason he said we should stop dating because he has to focus on being a flight attendant (which is true because actually when we first talked on the dating app, he said he is just looking for friends and gym buddy) — and then our first meetup began. We had something physical on our first date and then he enjoys being around me and up until last night, we were actually dating. He even introduced me to his friends as his date. He said he really likes to talk to me because we are having very sensible conversations in which he has having a hard time to find such people. Until last week, he said he doesn’t want to date because he needs to focus on his goals to become a flight attendant which is true because he got a plenty of rejections for flight attendant job applications.

I asked him straightforward last night, If I have any chance he said ‘honestly, no’. He just doesn’t feel any chemistry. ‘I’m trying hard to,’ he said, but just can’t feel it. But he said he wants me around him. He even said he likes me and I asked him ‘like me as a what?’ he said he doesn’t even know. He seems confused. He genuinely doesn’t know what to do, he told me. He also said maybe because I’m too much available :(. I asked him if he’s seeing other guys or using the app and he said no. When we met last night, we’re also quite cuddling like the usual and he is fine with it.

I told him I wanna give this a shot again, kind of like resetting of what he have now. I’ve read a couple of articles online about the No Contact method and/or Radio Silence method. I tried cutting off contact with him today and he’s been calling and messaging me a now a couple of times today. I’m not sure if the method is working but looks like it is. Any more helpful tips/advice would be greatly appreciated! Thank you.