my boyfriend and i are long distance well more like medium distance as he’s only two hours away and i am conflicted on letting him move in with me. he isn’t quite financially stable just considering his circumstances like not being able to drive yet and just not having a lot of jobs in the area he is from. i want him to move in with me so i can help him get on his feet but due to a past relationship going really bad when i tried to do that i just have so much anxiety about doing it again. my boyfriend is definitely not the same as my ex in any way and he tells me if he does move in with me he’ll get his stuff together it’s just where he is work is scarce and nobody in his family really know how to drive and the ones who do just don’t have cars and i have seen the area he lives in and it’s pretty dead just a military base nearby. i just need advice. should i take the chance and let him move in with me and get his stuff together or should i just wait and have him sit where he is and hunt for a job and have nobody to teach him how to drive? i just don’t want to be put in the predicament my last relationship put me in and be fucked over when it comes to my financials.