So me and boyfriend are coming up on five years now. It's been rocky at times, and the best at others. We have both had our share of growth, and aren't perfect but still try to be there for each other even though we both have our own problems to deal with. We decided this would be the year to stop fucking around, find our careers, save, and build a home together. We even booked a trip to Disney with his family even though we're broke and I haven't complained once about any sacrifice I've had to make to get us here. But then as I got plug his phone in so he doesn't wake up to a dead phone, I see messages that I couldn't ignore on his lock screen and of course I go putting my nose where it shouldn't be and hurt myself. Turns out he's been talking to guys, sending pics, OUR ADDRESS to people I don't know, and flirting with everyone that comes into his dms. Him giving my location alone made me want to wake him up with the meanest slap on this earth but I love him and still do.. I've been like silent since last night and haven't said anything so he knows but idk how to go about this subtlety. Is this common? Have you guys given your all and still been shit on? I truly don't understand it and I don't know where to go from here.