We are a cute couple, a great pair, top-notch communicators. We bond on food, movies, nature, gay drama, wine, politics, art, etc. Sure I piss him off with my tardiness here and there- but I always make it up to him in the way he likes it ;).

Overall, we are great, life is good, I’m in love. And yet, I can’t get the thoughts out of my head:

“Im too young for life-long commitment” “You are wasting his time, he should be with someone who is serious about hunkering down” “You are in your prime, you need to fuck every horny within a 5-mi radius”

These thoughts are valid yet they make me question what it is i truly want or need. Truthfully I’m lost, this is the best relationship I’ve had my entire life and I’m scared to lose it… to lose him, but on the other hand I really do feel far too young to sign it all away. I don’t know how to approach this problem anymore.