Hey everyone so for a little context me and my bf have been together for almost two years we met when he was 19 and I was 21. I didn’t think our age difference could answer for our very different insights first I wanted a open relationship but he wanted to be monogamous then later actually wanted to try it after we have moved to Houston about a year and a few months into our relationship and it’s our first times living with a bf so I expected literal differences but not this. I agreed to doing the open thing because I realized hey it’s beautiful people in Houston why not but my bf completely changed he started lying to me about men, how he met them, things they did, where he was half the time and I said if we can’t be truthful we can’t do the open rs thing or we have to end things between us. He agreed but continued having his fun while I halted everything after an accidental raw sexual interaction for our sake. What does he do? He lies saying we never halted the open rs and proceeds to fuck two more guys raw to which one of them was the cause of a reactive hiv test we both went to take yesterday and honestly I do not see a life long partnership with this person anymore at least romantically… but every time I bring some wisdom or try to guide this with him he ignores everything I say and do him anyways but cries like a baby at any critique I feel like I’m stuck in a relationship with a wall.