This is absolutely not to be mean but I’m done. My new requirements are at least a bachelors degree, or an 80k salary when dating. I’m 25, working on my masters in clinical mental health. There is nooo way men 30 should be stealing from me, asking me for money or help or being aggressive/ rude. Like I don’t like going into super expensive spaces because nobody looks like me or wants me there but it’s also like…when I get on apps for men of color, or go to bars it’s always something…..they ask me for money, they have drug issues, or they have mental issues, or worse. Now granted I do recognize I have some privilege here. 25 live at home rent free in a fairly large home my parents own. Don’t have to work if I don’t want to. Drive a nice car…. I know that not everybody can do that or has the chance but I’m not asking for much. Like let’s do better please man. Resolve your mental issues, get some type of job or education, let go of addiction.

I am by no means saying this is only men of color. Im saying the men that are of color and are close to my age seem to be the bottom of the barrel. 😭😭😭😭 thoughts?