I’m in an open relationship, I think :thinking:. We have had the most difficult time to navigate thru the do’s and don’ts of our commitment of respect and Love. I am truly and madly in love with him but I keep hurting for reasons I don’t completely understand or agree with but it’s him who I want to be happy so I try to meet him halfway. The thing is he doesn’t meet me half way. We have multiple gay social Media apps on our phones and some we share an account and some we have separately. Twitter, Xhamster, dudesnude, Skype, zoom, manyvidz, and maybe more, I’m not sure anymore if he’s being completely honest with me. But I chose to decide that he is. Until we get in argument about why did you write that person this and why did you write that person that way, so on so forth… So I jump on my cam apps and jerkoff with other Men but 90% in a zoom room/group setting, as we feel it’s less intimate and more like just wanting the raw urge to jerkoff and cum. Before moving forward, sorry we are 22 years apart 42 and 64 respectively.

The Major issue is… sexting and camming are they same kind of infidelity?? For me it’s really not cheating at all per say, as long as it’s not repetitively with the same person…grey area??? If it is then let your partner in to be in the know and discuss how it makes them feel.

He believes that camming is cheating but sexting is not, so that’s where I’m confused. If we are going to classify cheating as an intimate moment with another person then why is one different then the other. Does the action speak louder than words concept work here??? I have no fucking idea anymore.