So I’m trying out using online apps for hook ups recommended by another bi group. Long story I have a hall pass by my wife as long as it’s only with guys. I hooked up only twice. First one was just head, lights on until climax. Awesome. I was so looking forward to actually getting laid, the guy came over and it was weird, he couldn’t get hard so I gave him a bluchew, and he wanted to watch porn while we got it on but it was straight porn, in the dark doggy style while he watched porn on my back. Do I just let that one go or is he confused about his sexuality? He got off but still I feel like weird about having a second time around. What I’m asking is that normal and has it happened to anyone else before?