A little about me. I just turned 43. I’m 6’ and about 300lbs (loosing weight) yes I’m chubby and hairy. I would consider my self a bear. I live by my self and have been independent for 25 years. I’ve worked hard for where I am and what I have. I’m at the point in my life where I want to settle down with someone I love and loves me. Someone who is strength to my weakness and I’m strength to their weakness.

I’m generally attracted to younger guys (age gaps don’t bother me) i tend to like clean cut, preppy, twinkish guys. With that said i have surprised my self in the past with the types of guys I’ve fallen for. I’d prefer someone who drives, has their own car, and works (school is fine too)

Sexually I’m an actual vers but for some reason I’m always falling for bottoms. I would say recently I’ve been more of a subby bottom even though I can be any part of the range. I wouldn’t mind finding a guy who was vers/top (soft top/service top). For kinks I don’t kink shame and am pretty open.

Hobbies/likes. I love the beach, and wood similarly. I’m not a city boy but I like visiting. I want to travel more. I’m a technology nerd. 3d printing, electronics, computers, games, and vr. I’m also into cars, wood working, metal working, cooking, and DIY stuff. For entertainment anime, sci-fi, action, Disney, and marvel, are my top faves.

Cute dates would be quiet and romantic. Picnic under the stars with acute warm blanket to cuddle up with each other. Maybe some warm hot chocolate. (Spiked) and some cute little snacks, soft music playing in the background while cuddling and kissing..

I have several ways that I like to communicate to people. I’m a big Texter. However I enjoy long talks on the phone and sleep calls.

I have discord, Snapchat, telegram, VRC,

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