Hello there, I'm a 38 year old gay trans man who lives in Long Beach, CA. I am disabled physically, I'm autistic, and I'm demisexual, so if you're hoping for a ONS, you're looking in the wrong place. I just wanted to get these things out of the way, if they're dealbreakers for you then let's not waste our time, eh? If not, keep reading!

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I like to play video games, and watch people play video games. I do crafts, I love movies, especially horror movies, I don't watch TV (just don't have the patience to keep up with TV shows). I play table top RPGs like D&D, and mostly survival crafting type games like Raft, Subnautica and Vintage Story. I also randomly delve into different subjects, but things like history, especially things like fashion or the history of the common people, will pop up over and over again. I try not to engage with politics too much anymore, too bad for my mental health, but I'm very much a leftist. I have no pets currently but I do like animals. I smoke cannabis for my mental health and physical pain and disabilities, and it's nice of course. I love music, I can sing but that's about it. I'm mostly into electronic music, especially dubstep and retrowave, and rock, metal and rap. Not into pop country, but actual Americana, like Colter Wall and Woody Guthrie, is the shit. I'm a sucker for a good male singing voice. I mostly listen to Dance With The Dead, Joji, Linkin Park, Run The Jewels, Skrillex, Lil Nas X, Aesop Rock, and some other music.

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I'm hoping to meet someone similar to me in a lot of ways, including where they are in life. I'm unemployed and likely will stay that way, I'm dealing with trauma but making good progress, and for many reasons I am NOT looking for someone to cohabitate with. I value my privacy and space and I'm a terrible roommate. I live independently with support. I qualify as a "bear" in gay terms, but I am short. I am a bottom, and am only interested in men and masculine people. We can go over more if we connect. As I said, I'm demisexual, which means I'm not interested in jumping into bed with someone immediately. I'm hoping for something approaching a more serious relationship over time if things work out that way. I do not want the "traditional" relationship, but how exactly things are going to work will be up to us.

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I value honesty above all else. It comes very easy to me being on the spectrum. I expect us to be as honest and mature with each other as possible, even if it hurts. I would much rather you come to me if you, say, make a mistake of some kind and we talk it out instead of you hiding something from me, as that WILL make everything worse. I do NOT want children, I am surgically sterilized. I am not a kid person. Please be between 35-45ish, close to my age. NOBODY UNDER 30 PLEASE. I'm down to chat here for a little while, and if we get along we could play games (together or separately) and chat on Discord, and eventually meet up. Please be local! I do not have a car, only public transport. PLEASE BE SERIOUS. AND BE SINGLE!! I can't believe I have to specify this. Will exchange face pics.