44yo plump n’ chubby progressive-minded hairy bottom chill nerdy gamer guy in NE TN USA seeks a younger (25 ) more HWP nerdy hairy progressive-minded top for for possible monogamous LTR.

The TLDR version…

*** About me ***

I’m a “fat healthy” 44yo 5’9” 355 lbs. I live in NE TN in a house with my 2 small dogs. I work two jobs and I stay busy during the week as a medical courier (FT) and radio news producer (PT). I’m free evenings and weekends.

I don’t smoke or use any recreational drugs (I can’t because of work) and I lightly drink on social occasions. My drink of choice is Lambrusco wine or a hard cider.

I’m on a weight loss journey and take medication (Wegovy) to assist me. As for religion, I am a secular theist who is against the Christian Fascism being pushed in our current political landscape.

I am inconspicuous about my sexuality (as in most people can’t tell I’m gay unless it gets brought up somehow).

*** Things I like *** Nerdy things. I’m sci-bi — I like both Star Trek and Star Wars. I also enjoy LOTR, Big Bang Theory, Stranger Things, Rick And Morty, and fantasy. I do light gaming on switch (30 titles) and PC (over 500 titles on Steam). I enjoy game nights with friends, social outings, light hiking, camping, and I’m a big foodie. I’ll drive hours for a new food experience. I prefer a night in with friends to a night at the club. I work early so I get in bed early (10ish).

*** What I’m attracted to *** I love short nerdy younger than me jock types. Not too young — within 8 to 10 years below me. Physically I like physiques ranging from lean and muscular to “huskular” dad bods (belly but nice arms) — someone more height & weight proportionate than myself— my opposite physically if you will. I like furry pits and a jungle crotch. You get bonus points if you’re under 5’9” tall. I’m a bottom in the bedroom, so someone who enjoys being a top. I am a monogamous-minded person, so ethical non-monogamy isn’t for me. I like someone who is also inconspicuous with their sexuality — meaning I find straight looks and mannerisms attractive.

*** My expectations *** Be mature, responsible, employed with good work ethic (I don’t care what you do as long as you leave the cave, kill something and are dragging it home). Be able to balance being a kid-at-heart with being a responsible mature adult. Baggage is expected, but be mentally and emotionally balanced without bringing drama that could wreck a relationship (been there). Be mindful in money (See Dave Ramsey’s 7 Baby Steps; that’s what I’m doing). Be able to balance going out and socializing with staying in and cuddling/chilling. Don’t be a druggie or irresponsible with alcohol. Be patient, as I am a stubborn person. Be politically center or slightly left-leaning. Any or all religious beliefs are respected, but keep in mind I’m more spiritual and a secular theist.