So, I’ve JUST started dating this guy who’s open to cucking (identifies as a degradee and masochist). We haven’t talked about it extensively, but he knows it’s an important part of my kink profile. Everything is still pretty nascent, and I don’t quite know how to ease into it or what types of discussions should be had.

SO, I’m open to advice, especially if you can provide your personal experience from those who started dating with your partner knowing upfront that you (or he) would be the cuck. Did you have detailed discussions? At what point did the true cucking begin? Was it gradual? If so, what boundaries were set, if any?

For those of us who know cucking (or being cucked) is our ideal relationship, you know that it’s a bit nerve racking to navigate it at the early stages, even while you want it to begin DAY ONE. I’d really like to make it all work out with this guy without overwhelming him (for clarity, we have not talked about anything more than I’m into cucking and that he’s not opposed to it).