My husband recently got to know a guy (we’ll call him Trey) through work. Trey is straight and the very definition of a jock- he played football and is ripped. He and my husband got to talking about a mutual interest, and started snapping from there. When my husband would tell me about this, he would tell me how he was excited to have a bro with similar interests. He insisted and insisted that there was nothing sexual going on and he had indeed met him at work when I raised suspicion. I took him for his word.

A couple days later I happened to notice a message from Trey on his Home Screen. I couldn’t resist the temptation to open it up. I was shocked by what I saw: “want me to rearrange your guts again?” I was jealous but also so hard thinking about this muscle boy pounding my husband behind my back.

I didn’t mention seeing the message. Hubby still maintains they’re just “bros”. Now I know what they’re really doing when hubby tells me he’s working late. Something tells me they didn’t meet at work after all.