So today, I got a message on a cruising site, a guy was horny, nearby and needed a blowjob. I was so down. I got to his place, and he was waiting on his couch, jerking off. I started sucking him, but he kept going soft, and was taking forever to cum. He said that if I had somewhere to be, it would take him a while to cum. I asked him if he wanted me to continue, and he said yeah. So I started sucking him again, but still not getting very hard. I just felt bad and kinda awkward, and was trying to think of ways to end it. He finally came, and I left.

How do you guys end an experience with a guy when it’s just not going well? I understand the nerves and anxiety before a hookup can effect your performance. I’ve been there, and it sucks. Not trying to shit on the dude, but after a while, if nothing is happening, you know it, I know it, how do you politely end it?