There’s a very cruisy park in Albany, NY (Six Miles Waterworks) that I’ve come to frequent a lot. However, since it’s gotten cold and the trees no longer give cover, many guys park and stay in their cars.

My question is, how do you cruise guys without being overbearing or inconvenient for the uninterested or the non-cruisers that might be in their cars for other reasons?

Once I went up to one and asked him for a light. I don’t usually smoke though but happened to have a cigarette that day, so that worked. A couple of times I’ve also walked by a car and found the guy with his dick out, so it was easier to get to the point. But that’s more of a rarity. So what do you guys do?