I found the pastor of my estranged fundamentalist brother on Grindr. I didn't know at the time that he was a pastor. He said he worked at home. He had invited me during the pandemic to fuck at his place, while his wife was out working. We never really did anything because he was really far.

Long story short, a few months later my parents begged me to accompany them to a special event my brother had at his church. I went and... surprise surprise! There he was.

I don't think he identified me with the mask. But I identified him because he sent me photos and even audio clips, so I knew the sound of his voice. I never really said anything and blocked him.