Excluding schoolfriend fumbling, I didn't have my first gay sex until I was 31. Ok I knew I was sexually attracted to guys and had crushes on them, but I'd yet to actually be naked and do anything.

I decided to join a gay dating agency. The first 2'guys weren't my type, the 3rd one was better but although we met more than once nothing happened.

Then he invited me round for coffee one evening, and without telling me he tried a bit of match-making. He Invited round s friend, to whom I was attracted as he was slim, blond, and around my age. I went into the kitchen to get more drinks, and I felt someone behind me grinding their crotch against my ass, then reaching round and groping me. I turned and soon we were kissing and hands everywhere.

We went back into the other room, and we're snogging on the sofa with jeans down and erections on show. My friend was masturbating as he watched us with his match-making having worked.

The blond guy invited me back to his place for the night, and we stripped naked as soon as the front door closed. We started by sucking each other then the blond slid his 6" cock into my tight hole and took my virginity. He was very experienced and showed me how to fuck him in turn. After a few hours sleep we woke and fucked each other again. In those pre-HIV days just about everyone fucked bareback. It was the start of a year-long relationship.