Essentially, my partner and I are in an open relationship. Or at least we are in theory... We live in the Deep South, so finding free and clear gay men to hook up with isn't an easy task. Usually when we try to hook up with someone, they are very cautious and treat it like we will get burned like witches... Even though this area of the south is pretty progressive lol. So far nearly every single guy has gotten nervous and backed out, or you can tell after they cum from chatting they get post nut clarity and flee the scene. It's become increasingly frustrating for us, to the point that we A) are seriously considering relocating and B) I don't even like men anymore 🤣😭. Joking but honestly! When did everybody become so afraid and antisocial?

Anyway - just wanted to share my experience in rant form lol but also seeing any of you have similar experiences and what you have done.