My bf and I are new on the chastity journey and would love some help recommending a cage and some play ideas!

Our dynamic is a little different than usual - I’m a sub top, and he’s a switch / vers bottom. We both love the idea of him owning and controlling my dick. So less about being in chastity for extended period of times; more about having the cage on when he’s not using my dick so I can’t touch myself without his permission.

When shopping for cages though, I’ve found that they tend to be designed to be small and enclosed, to hide the dick. But that isn’t quite right for us - we want a vibe that’s more about showing off my dick when I’m caged, but not being able to touch it. So maybe something a little bigger than normal, and more exposed while still not being able to play with it? I’m also a bit of a grower, so a larger cage can be awkward when I’m soft, but maybe that’s just something I have to accept. I’m normally 7 inches hard. Would love any recommendations.

We’re also trying to explore more ways for him to tease me in this dynamic, since it’s a little different than some of the normal chastity activities. Would love recommendations there too. Have already enjoyed him using a vibrator on my cage, subjecting me to random cage inspections whenever he feels like it, also talking about him pissing on me, unlocking me when I’m tied down so I can’t touch myself.