For some early context I'm sorry for the awful excuse of trimming the hedges. The battery depleted in mid use 🤬

Long time reader, and guidance provide. I'm extremely super shy as I'm a photojournalists and IT consultant for some big companies.

Me and my fiancé have been very exploratory when it comes to the bedroom adventures (I'm a huge kinky bdsm guy. Him, he's a retired military man who is open to try new things. Yes, we are the same age and he's getting used to toys. He won't say it, but he really likes estim)

Now that the elephant is out of the room, here we go.

Now that I finally got my family out of my house after the holiday. Me and hubby have been a little more, active. Like rabbits. Haha.

I blame the unique weather of N. Texas being cold so we snuggle a lot more.

Well, having said that, he decided to take it up a notch last night. We had a home cooked meal, glass of wine and movie night. Then he dragged me into the bedroom and in one unique motion (I'm still trying to figure out how the hell he did it) managed to get my shirt off, undo my pants and launched on the bed in my underwear.

I'm not really sure how much time passed but after my logic brain stepped back into place over my primal brain I realized he had my hands cuffed above me and he was putting my dick in a cage. I heard the keys jingle after the lock was engaged and he undid the handcuffs. He just mentioned "Babe, this is hot, now I get all the fun! Don't worry, I'll still help clean the house and let the home automation thing you designed do it's thing. But I like teasing you with the keys!"

I realized that we both agreed to this, so it's safe, sane and consensual and I'm loving it. He agreed to my terms, not his, to help me loose that stubborn last 3lbs of weight off my stomach. (Not unreasonable by any means)

My reward? All kinds of kinky fun with happy endings for both parties, and I get to lock his dick away next time after I edge him stupid or break out my secret weapon of the milking machine when I strap him down to the bed). So win win!

Moral? You know your in a good relationship when you feel safe and respected with your companion.

You never know, that vanilla boy may be kinker than he thinks 😏

Above all else, be safe, have fun, be adventurous and always be safe sane and consensual!