As the title says. In hookups, I often do oral only, and a surprising number of times, guys tell me they can‘t cum at all from just a blowjob or they generally take super long to cum. Guys who cum quickly have never been an issue for me; you can always delay their orgasm, take a break, go multiple rounds or have them suck yourself in between. But if the partner doesn’t cum at all I’m usually a bit disappointed, some more since I’m really into cum. Of course it might be my skills (which I don’t think are lacking and have been told otherwise but you never know), but even if I tell them I’d like to see them jerk themselves to completion, I’m told they can’t cum. Anyone with similar experiences? Any thoughts on this?

By the way, I hope this post doesn’t offend people who have difficulty orgasming / take their time - to each their own and I’m sure many enjoy your extra stamina. I just wanted to get this off my chest and see how others see it.