I honestly hate the term or being referred to as BBC, it comes off as racist and like a fetish… maybe I’m one of few that feels this way but it is offensive to I me. Like can you approach me without the mention of my color or calling me by a stereotype? Why do guys think that saying this is a turn on or a compliment, especially if they are not a person of color … My post is not to ment to offend anyone but more so to inform those that think it’s acceptable to refer to anyone as a bbc. That’s the fastest way to get block by me, and yes I’m aware that men of color have used this term to refer to themselves, however we are not a monolithic community.