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Topping doesn't feel as pleasurable as masturbation
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As the title says, I don't feel as much pleasure when I top than masturbation.

I met a guy on Grindr 6 weeks ago and we have had sex several times. I didn't have much experience with sex then because I only had bottomed twice and hadn't had sex for 2 years. I tried to bottom when having sex with this guy but it hurt so much. So I have been the top every time. But topping feels more tiring than pleasurable. Don't get me wrong, I still feel good. But I would rather have foreplay and masturbate than topping this guy.

I felt sexually attracted by this guy when we first met. But now not anymore. And for the first few times we didn't have anal sex. I also don't like doing sports nor do I go to a gym. What could be the problem that makes topping feel not very good?

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Iโ€™ve had that happen. Things change but you guys can always be masturbation buddies nothing wrong with that๐Ÿ˜Ž

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