I’ve met a guy on Grindr. He is married to a woman and she doesn’t know but I think he is a sweet man and we have very similar backgrounds.

He wants to introduce me to his wife as his friend which I’m happy about. He also has another friend “relationship” which he also introduced to his wife as a friend.

The problem is, I don’t know how long this is gonna go on. He never mentioned he has plans to come to terms with his wife and I don’t want to help him cheat.

I’ve struggled being to out to family and it did not go well so they don’t exist in my life anymore. I feel like being around him might emotionally drain me considering my past. I really like this man as a platonic friend for now

Just need some advice how to navigate this so that NOBODY is hurt.