So basically this guy and I have been meeting regularly for 6 months for sex and cuddles and we developed feelings. The problem is he wants a boyfriend and someone he can have projects with. I am already engaged in a relationship - open but not poly. Last time we met we had a big talk: he said this is not what he is looking for and he is confused. It felt like the end even if we ended up having sex and cuddling again. It’s not clear if we are going to meet again or if this was the last time. When I left, there were tears in his eyes. This was 4 days ago and we did not talk since but I think about him a lot. I would like to text him and make sure he is ok, let him know I am here. But I think maybe he needs space and time. Do you think I can text him? Is it too soon? What can I say that will help him?