Internalized homophobia? Self-conscious?

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I feel weird even thinking about it but, I get very nervous and socially anxious around other gays and gay spaces. Orlando based. I am 35, husband is 36 and we’ve been together for 12 years. We’ve been to a gay bar once. It was fun but I was so nervous. We’ve only been to pride twice. I want to go to events but I’m sooo uncomfortable. I can go to a non-gay bar or a non-gay space or a non-gay event with relatively no issues, but around other gays…I just feel so anxious. I feel like it holds me back from so much because I’m terrified to go out or meet other gays. Anybody have advice or thoughts?

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