Hey guys

A little disclaimer; I moved out from a very homophobic country to a country where I can be myself, the past couple of years I had a boyfriend which didn’t work out and I want to put myself out there.

As someone who never been in such environment I don’t really know how to “put myself out there” I have the confidence and I am an accomplished guy with a bright personality, but due to where I lived it is just I don’t know how to be out there, if you know what I mean!

I thought about going to a bar or something even though I don’t drink, but the idea of going alone doesn’t excite me (well I am alone in this city after all), and I’m not a guy who likes to hook up and all, so it’s just I want to get to know people and date; I’m a bit at loss here, what pointers could you guys give to meet people around?