Hello! I’m a 24yo sub from Oregon looking for a soft dom. Hopefully someone local to the PNW, but maybe online depending on the person.

A little about me: I’m a pansexual cis male who is also demisexual, so I need some sort of personal connection before engaging in some more intimate parts of bdsm, however that means I am more open to the non-sexual sides at first. I’ve done online relationships in the past, which has been awful and why I’m mostly looking for in-person. I’m open to trying most kinks at least once and have my favorites and limits below. I’m 6’2, 180lbs, have several piercings and a tattoo (wanting more), thin with shoulder length hair and a beard and willing to send non-face photos at first. I also have a partner, however we are both open to multiple relationships/bdsm interactions, and they are aware I’m looking for a dom.

I’m looking for a soft dom (as I don’t do well with degradation anymore due to past experiences) but who can be commanding and strict when needed. Looking for someone age 21-40, but could be older if we connect well.

If you’re in Oregon, that’s great! But I can also make most anywhere in the PNW work. I’d love to have an actual conversation before diving head first into anything, at least get to know one another and see if we click.

Kinks: Bondage, praise, chastity, anal, toys, orgasm denial, pup/pet play, collars and leashes, cross dressing, and more ^{^}

Limits: scat, blood, permanent damage

If you’re local, please message! I’d love to talk more ^{-^}