Some time back I relocated from South Africa to the UK alone for a work opportunity. I saw this as a chance to finally explore my bottled away kinks and fantasies I have been too afraid to experience my whole life. I am a masculine closeted sub with a desire to be trained as obedient pup who is dependent on its owner, giving over control and power as time passes. Ideally I would want something to develop long term if I find the right connection.

The feeling of vulnerability and humiliation of being in someone’s total control and submission makes my legs weak. I’m desperate for someone to take control of me and mould me into their well trained toy. I am turned on by almost all kinks that are based around humiliation, degradation and submission.

All my life I have pretended to be a vanilla guy as I grew up in a conservative home as the oldest son, there have always been high expectations of me but now that I am starting this new life alone I feel free finally.

Kinks include: Pup play Chastity Edging Denial Ruined orgasms Electro Bondage Blackmail Pain Humiliation CBT WS Anal stretching Objectification Limits: Blood Illegal needles body writing

Looking for online initially and then move to in person if possible once I have developed some trust. No face pics in the first messages.