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Hello future or possible doms. As the title says I am an 18 year old boy who needs to submit. I am looking for something very specific. A strong firm male figure who is ideally going to take a role of not just a dom to teach me discipline, structure and about submission but also a physical trainer.Â
I need a dom who has extensive knowledge about the gym. Currently I am 1,65 cm (5'4) and 69 kg (152lbs, so I am just around 6lbs overweight) my goal is to lose something between 5kg to 7kg (11lbs to 15lbs, to get lean) or more (Need guidance to know what would be the right amount), and also start to build muscle. Another thin I want to point out is I am hairy and can't currently shave as I always wanted to see how I look in shape with it before taking a decision (in which your opinion, if we are still in the partnership, will be taken into heavy consideration). Yes, this is a long term goal for a long term dom/sub partnership. I am hardworking but I need the guidance and discipline a good Dom can enforce, making me enjoy submitting for him.
As I said I want discipline and structure. That's why I want a system that can cover my needs and also be part of my submission. I think that what works best is a point system, with rewards and punishments. Something like the obedience app would be ideal. I want rules and protocols, small things that can make me fill in submission even when you are not around, for example having to notify when I edge, or not being able to touch my cock (autoimposed chastity basically).Â
I have a varying amount of kinks and limits, my first foremost is face. It's not that I won't ever show my face but I won't for the fist guy that comes to me and ask for a photo, trust needs to be built in both sides. I also want this to not be one sided when it comes to sexual photos or pictures in general. I want to see and know the dom I am baring naked my innermost fantasies and wishes along my vulnerable sides when submitting. I want a connection, that means that besides our dom/sub partnership I want to feel free to message you, ask questions, talk when my limits are approached or need a moment to stop. This doesn't mean that I won't push my own boundaries in the attempt to follow orders but that I don't want to feel forced, submission comes from my own decision so that's a no no. I want us to be friends that happen to be in a dom/sub relationship.
Following those limits are things like illegal actions, extreme pain or corporal damage and scat. I am sure there will probably a few that will come up with time. Kinks are also important, I certainly enjoy edging, cum control, pup play, anal play, cum denial and more!
I would like to meet someone thoughtful but strong, a balance between pushing me slightly and being patient. I know it's hard even more considering my present physical state but my submission if met with someone that can give me what I need, will be strong. Please when you reach out avoid referring me as a sub as we hadn´t stablished any type of dynamic! You are more than welcome to write back with some information about you and telling me what you thought about my post! Any dom that has sent message before is welcomed to send again and see if we can work things out this time.
Messages with effort will have my priority!
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