I’m 44, 6’3, 225, masculine, bi, and sanely kinky.. but pretty much all of my real life experience has been as a soft-ish top/dom. I’d like to find someone interested in exploring a different kind of dynamic. IRL is a possibility, but given that this is reddit and we’re all over the place I figure most of our interaction would be online.

As for real world kinks, I’ve got experience with spanking and impact play, toys and fun implements, mild bondage/shibari, breath play, body worship, cuddling/massage, and D/s play. These days, my solo play usually involves edging to reddit smut. Usually while I’m grinding on a plug or a toy because it feels so damned good. It would be cool to compare notes on the kinds of porn we enjoy. Or maybe send each other things that turn us on.

I’ve dabbled in a bit of online D/s. What I’ve found so far is that photos, posing, and toys are cool. I’m less into being told what to wear or changing things about myself. At least flippantly or at first. But if things click, I feel like I’d be pretty malleable. I can be a very flirty and doting submissive if the vibe is right. I’m also open to more casual conversations and would like to build towards an ongoing kind of thing.

I know I like feeling sexy. I like feeling vulnerable too. Apart from edging/milking and the rest, I’m into verbal partners, praise, joi and I’m curious about exploring more with ball play, cum eating, roleplaying, and D/s. I’m open to other ideas as well.