Hi,

I am a 25 year old working professional from London. I am looking for an online dom to give my submissive side to. I am not open to romance or one off pump and dumps. I want to be clear right here: I am here for a BDSM power exchange dynamic. I am not here to just be a show-off slut (note: I very much enjoy being a show-off slut, for you sir, but it’s 100x better within a power exchange dynamic), I’m here to submit to an assertive and dominant man. If I don’t feel your dominance, then it doesn’t interest me. Also, I am not open to sexual exclusivity, of course you will be my only dom but I date sub girls irl.

What I offer:

• Attentive – I want us to care about each other!

• Well-behaved (unless you prefer me not to be).

• Communication – it’s the most important thing

• Realism – Fantasy is fun but I’m looking for a genuine power exchange and I understand that takes some realism. I am not a mega super sub, I’m not perfect and I don’t expect you to be either.

• An eagerness to please and do anything I can to help you feel dominant and powerful – I want to see the dom inside of you unleashed.

• Dedicated – I don’t give up easy, I want to improve. I don’t think I am the best sub in the world, but I do strive to be a quality one, I hope you strive to be the best dom you can be.

• Trust and loyalty.

What I look like:

• Tall, 6ft1in-ish.

• White.

• Athletic/toned.

• Weirdly not very hairy for a man, very little body hair.

• Brown hair.

• Happy to share (or show off) what I look like early on. I don’t care about what you look like.

Kinks I am into (don’t worry, none are mandatory, I am very flexible and open to new things):

• Psychological play – humiliation, degradation.

• Light pain.

• Chastity, denial. I’m not a pleasure sub, I care more about pleasing you.

• Feminisation (I know some hate this, that’s fine, I can without).

• Some TPE.

• Discipline, being told off and generally just feeling your firm hand.

• Bondage, gags, collars, toys etc.

• Aftercare.

Limits/things I don’t like very much:

• Scat.

• Choking/breath play.

• Criticising my appearance.

• Excessive pain / CBT.

Other things I really, really enjoy:

• Verbal men, hearing your voice.

• Dirty talking.

• Listening to your fantasies.

• Articulate sentences.

• Name-calling.

• Older (not really important, but if you are <21 and studying then we probably won’t have much in common).

• Black men (I know, I know – but not important either, what you look like will never be a negative thing for me).

Vanilla stuff (I hope we find something in common!):

• I work in tech.

• I workout a lot – at least 4 days a week.

• I am interested in all sorts of intellectual topics: philosophy, psychology, economics, culture and history to name a few.

• I like video games, maybe I can be your healer >.<

Logistics:

• I only use Telegram. No Snap or Discord. If I am showing off, it’s going to be private and secure, just for you.

• I don’t care about timezones as long as we can make it work for us. I am in GMT (obviously).

If this interests you somewhat or you read to the end, I am probably very interested in speaking with you! Please send me a message, the more effort the better. I typically get a lot of messages when I post, so I will only leave this up for one day so I don't get overwhelmed and can give full attention to everyone that messages.

Thank you so much for the time and have a wonderful evening :)