The attractive quality of submission is allowing you to finally breath and relax your mind. You no longer need to be the leader or manager. You are allowed to be the foot soldier and follow command. You are proud of your role and duty. There is a pride that grows within you knowing you can validate and protect your dom.

You are this masculine man who still wants to obey and be on his knees, but still able stand tall without anyone realizing you've been trained into being a good boy. The irony is the most appealing quality. No one knows you've allowed yourself to be fucked or that you've offered your hole for cum. You would willingly kiss your Dom's feet as a sign of respect and reverence. You feel humbled rather than humiliated because you are cared for. You work as a unit having a leader and a soldier. A leader (dom) is unable to call himself a leader without anyone to lead. A soldier has no purpose if he is just a stray. This is why there is balance in the mental structure of dominance and submission.