You've always been the responsible father or the caring boyfriend or the responsible hard worker. You are looked up to and always are the problem solver. Sometimes you just want to be held or held down or taken over. You wish to relinquish this power and allow another man inside of you.

Physically, you’re a taller man, an athletic man, someone who no one would think needs to be taken care of; therefore, no one does. You become starved. You take care of everyone else but because you’re the caretaker, no one feeds your inner submission.

It is stressful being this masculine man. You enjoy being your masculine self but you wish to submit and serve. You would like someone else to be in charge. You would rather have someone else's pleasure become your priority because you have been taught and trained how to please your man.

Being able to serve and submit yet still be seen as the strong man you are is a rare sanctuary to find. It’s not just about the sexual explosion that offers when permission is gained to touch yourself, but it’s the accountability and the validation between one another you may give to each other. You are finally seen for all of you. Your vulnerability fuels the desire to be your guide. You’re allowed to let someone into your mind and therefore inside of your hole.