I am a chubby switch from South Africa looking for a Dom at the moment. I would prefer a male Dom, and I am open to other ages, ideally I would like someone close to my own age.

What I am looking for in a Dom is someone who can challenge me in small increments. I have explored a bit, and played around a bit, and so I have a rough idea of what I am capable of.

I enjoy bondage, some humiliation, hidden public, and the thrill of following a command. I would be open to someone who would like to control things like the underwear I wear, and when I should use my toys.

I am not into pain, as it's more of an irritation than sexually stimulating or exciting. I am also not really looking for JOI or photo collectors.

I also work from home mostly, and so I have some flexibility with the timing of the tasks, while also staying alone. I do travel often, and then stay with family, where completing tasks will be very limited. It usually falls around weekends.

My limits are the usual related ones of blood, scat, harm, social suicide and blackmail. I also won't be doing anything over mild pain and would expect the Dom to respect my boundaries when with others, and who will be flexible enough to postpone the tasks.

The toys I have are two small dildos, a small butt plug, a butt plug pup tail, a plug that kind of splits/expands when in, a collar, and a bondage kit where I can wear the arm and leg cuffs.

Thank you for reading until here. Please get into contact with me here