Howdy! Hope you are well, wherever you may be. I am looking for a long term relationship, both loving and kinky, with a dom. Distance is not a huge deal to me, so long as you would be open to meeting in person in the future. For reference, I am located in upstate South Carolina. Looking around has felt quite isolating to be honest, as I seek a relationship that is both loving and kinky, when in reality it feels like most folks I run into are exclusively looking for one or the other. You can find a post more about me as a person on my profile, but I'll keep this specific post relatively brief for your convenience.
I am a submissive/service top. This means that I prefer being used, ridden, and ordered around in the bedroom to please my dom. So while technically penetrating (the "top" of sub top) I very much want you to be in control, fully (the "sub" of sub top).
I have many kinks, most of which revolve around some form of subservience, humiliation, or odor:
- Being forced to sniff a Dom's armpits (especially sans deodorant and sweaty)
- Face sitting
- Ass worship (giving)
- Light con non-con RP
- Being farted on as a form of humiliation (this one is a maybe, something I want to try but not sure of)
In terms of my type, I love "smooth" guys, as facial and ass hair is kind of a turn off for me. Other than that I tend to be pretty open with my affections when it comes to body type, I love everything from twinks to chubs. I'm much more concerned with who you are on the inside, however.
In terms of my absolute "musts:"
- You must be between the ages of 18-26
- You must believe that it is always wrong to harm an innocent person (cause significant harm/cause minor harm without consent to a person who is not an active threat upon their own will) even if doing so would prevent "more" harm. For context, within the realm of BDSM, I do not consider pain which is mutually enjoyed to be "harm."
- You must at least be left of center in terms of politics
**Please do not message me with the intent of dating me if you do not fall into these categories.*\*
Regardless, thank you so much for your time. I hope you have an excellent day and an even better start to your year.
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