34M sub seeking casual FWB Dom

Hi there - I'm from New Zealand (GMT 13) and seeking some casual mates to chat with (telegram pref) but who also take on a Dominant role. This can be for a short session (edging, milking, chastity, etc) or longer-term tasks (ongoing orgasm denial, workouts), or a mixture (preferable!).

I'm into a lot of stuff from edging, orgasm control, denial, chastity, to BDSM, musk, feet, pits, ass, watersports, and quite into using hypnosis for arousal and submission, and general brainwashing techniques to get me in the right head space.

I have a bf so not after anything 24/7, just some casual ongoing fun.

Prefer guys my 25-40, similar interests, inquisitive and imaginative. I quite enjoyed being "interviewed" rather than "what do you want?", and obviously someone who's happy to chat about all sorts of random stuff during the day. I'm into computing, gaming, gardening, food and wine, reading.

Not interested in Doms who expect outright obedience, or constant submission. You'll need to earn my trust, but it's always so much fun once we get there ...

Flick me a DM if you're interested and tell me a little about who you are, where you're from, and what you're into.