Hey there!

After a series of (positive) life changes, I'm looking for a compatible submissive human being and building a decent, long-term connection.

I'm based in Manchester, UK, but I travel around quite a bit for work, so I'm pretty open to meeting up regardless of where you are.

I'm open to online-friends if we're not really able to meet up due to distance/etc if you otherwise meet the rest of my expectations, but my primary interest is for something IRL (though it doesn't have to be immediately).

Non-Kinky About Me

I'm a pretty normal person with an easy going and chilled out, open-minded attitude with my own place and a stable professional job. I think I prefer the "human first" approach, being seen as a person, as well as a dominant - and I do the same for a submissive partner too.

I'm 110kg and 182cm/6ft2; so I'm a bigger bear-y type of guy (shirtless slightly nsfw selfie), reasonably well-endowed, and as I've lost a huge amount weight recently, I'm in the gym three times a week, but it's not my whole personality.

I'm into the usual hobbies, things like movies, TV shows, gaming, D&D, and all that jazz - I'm very much into trying anything at least once, and I tend to prefer more interesting or unique experiences than material items. I really love hearing about other peoples hobbies and interests, so please do talk at me about them!

Kinky About Me

I've been into kink as the dominant partner for as long as I can remember and I've have had a variety of positive online and IRL d/s dynamics. I tend to be more affectionate/gentle/rewarding type of dominant, though that doesn't mean I don't enjoy being clear and assertive with my expectations, or that I don't own whips/floggers/etc.

I'm open to a lot of different kinks and fetishes and I've been lucky enough to try many throughout my life. I personally enjoy a lot of orgasm-control and pleasure-control with a submissive too, making use of my collection of toys with a tied up partner to explore their body and their physical reactions to my stimulation before allowing them to climax.

I prefer to get to know a person and understand them mentally and emotionally over a period of time, instead of just looking to get myself off in the fastest way possible - so I'm not looking for a one-time or short-term thing.

I'm very pro-SSC/RACK principles to make sure that interactions are positive and enjoyable for both of us, so our ability to communicate well is really important to me.

Who I'm Looking For

I'm primarily interested in meeting somebody below the age of 40, who is politically left side, with good communication and self-awareness.

I'm attracted to slim/toned/average body types and you'll be confident in sending pictures/videos/voice messages etc.

As I'm also looking to build more of a connection as well as the sexual aspects, you'll able able to hold a conversation and be interested in doing other things, instead of one-word answers or just getting fucked.

I'm not looking for anybody who is much of a "brat" or those who are currently in a relationship.

Next Steps

If you'd like to talk more, drop me a message through Reddit chat and tell me about yourself.

If you'd like me to reply reply, include a picture of yourself in your opening message (or have them in your profile, or a link, etc), and put some effort into your message; who are you, where you're from, what you're looking for, and which parts of this personal drew your interest.

We can chat on Reddit for a bit, and then maybe move to Discord/Telegram/Signal if we get on alright.