Are you a sub that is responsive, expressive and verbal? And need someone responsible, experienced and safe? Let me ease you into submission in a way that has you aroused, safe and feeling free. Let us push your boundaries together and introduce you to the slut within. Kink can be a powerful way to grow (mentally, emotionally and spiritually) while building self-love and confidence and am here for that.
I've been doing this for a while now, almost 4 years. But lately have had some very disappointing experiences with subs, so am hoping I find someone fun, healthy and wholesome. My usual posts are quite long and detailed, you can check them out on my profile including the reviews [https://imgur.com/a/oPJFXX2 ] from past subs.
I'm looking for someone who is in a good shape, both physically and mentally. And is ready to explore submission in a deeper, wholesome and healthy way. If you're looking for a quick orgasm, this is not the place. Someone who values the intimacy and intensity of a d/s connection. Someone who is easy to talk to, brings their personality with them to the kink. Someone whose goal out of this is to be a better, more self aware, and self loving person (despite the current shame or guilt they feel around this), not someone who's into this for the unhealthy reasons.
But most importantly, I want a sub that is responsive. I don't mean a brat or someone trying to punch above his weight. But someone who is expressive, with words, with sounds, with his body.. And matches my intensity with his own, while knowing his place. Yes, that would be ideal. A verbal sub who responds with more than what he receives. Seduce me with your expression.
I am 39. Bi. Not your conventional dom. I am brown, well traveled, well read, imaginative and have a knack for pressing the right buttons on my subs once we have built the momentum. I love vulnerability on both sides of this relationship so those expecting a unreasonably cold and strict Dom, spare yourself the effort to apply. My list of kinks include most of the common ones, but I particularly enjoy humiliation, cum control, and anal exploration, if I've to pick top three. I love tailoring tasks according to the sub and have them enjoy posing for me because it helps them see themselves in ways they've only ever imagined. Love dirty talk, and really appreciate a verbal sub. But I guess my biggest kink is intimacy - a legit kink. Build that intimacy with me that I seek and I'll have you fulfilling all your long held, deep, even dark, desires.
My three basic principles of training as a dom are that my subs should feel aroused, safe and free. All three in equal measures. I enjoy domming because I genuinely care for my subs - I enjoy the responsibility and take it seriously. I love making them feel like a slut, bringing out their deepest darkest fantasies in a safe place, where they can experience what it's like to be uninhibited with someone they trust.
In my old posts you'll find the format of the intro am expecting. This is my way to also let you know am hoping you'll read the old post. Will really help you understand what am looking to build here, because it's not the norm. And we all know, the norm isn't gonna work for long term healthy online d/s relationships.
Hope to hear from the good ones!
P.s.- I only train on telegram. Find it to be the safest and functionally most suited. No snapchat or kik or other apps.
P. P. S.- I would appreciate an SFW face pic before we begin training. I'd happily trade mine. And face isn't necessary in the nsfw pics. But I need to know the person am training. Not the body.
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