Hello,

I am 32 living in Seattle, but also spending time in San Diego as well. I have a selfie of myself on my profile. I am Asian. Assertive. Respectful. Gentle. Understanding. Communicative. Self-aware. Physically I am 5' 10", about 175lb, toned build.

I seek to ideally find someone in Seattle Proper if possible, otherwise open to more of the longer distanced connection with someone who is dedicated, loyal, and communicative.

Physically, I appreciate someone who is either taller than me 6' or more or someone who is 5' 7" or less. This is due to the fun play on height power exchange and roles. I enjoy someone who is active and able to participate in outdoor hobbies such as paddle boarding, hiking, bouldering, & swimming. A masculine appearance is a turn on, being built, hairy, with facial fair.

Mentally, I seek someone who is also self-aware of himself and the needs he wishes to have fulfilled. He is confident, respectful of my time, and has time to spare to build a connection. I seek someone who enjoys a power exchange. This means things are not 50/50 but rather perhaps 60/40 or 70/30 etc.

You enjoy watching me hold all the cards and knowing I have the power because it makes you feel vulnerable yet secure because we have an understanding of who each other are.

I consider myself a mental dom, meaning I enjoy the physical pieces of dominance, but I emphasis the importance of conversation, mental foreplay, and symbolism.

For example, you may like handcuffs because the look sexy or enjoy the feel of cold steel against your wrists. I would want to emphasis the mental aspect of this by giving attention to how vulnerable your body looks, all that muscle and you're still helpless to break free from these bonds, you have no choice but to submit your body, willingly allowing yourself into these cuffs.

Another example could be I am sitting in a chair with my shoes on while you crawl on all fours as instructed to kiss my shoe. There is a power dynamic at play here, watching a tall 6' man reduce himself to the notion of being made to submit himself to another man.

You tend to feel like the "big" man on campus, I enjoy ensuring you feel vulnerable with your hands bound above your head while the rest of your body is free game for my hands to wander and explore.

Please reach out to me if you are keen on having actual conversation and wanting to build a connection. I find it respectful to know who I am talking to with your age, where you are from, and an image of yourself at your comfort. I am happy to verify myself further because I am here to make a real connection. I also mainly use telegram for conversation. My username is the same as my reddit name if you wish to communicate there as well. Thank you for reading. Cheers.