Hi, I’m 18 years old, from Mexico, and new to the world of BDSM. I’m a switch, looking for someone to guide me as a submissive or explore with me as a Dom. Since this would be a long-distance dynamic, we’d primarily connect online. I don’t have any toys yet, but I’m creative and willing to improvise at home. I ask for patience as I’m still learning, and I’m open to many things with clear communication. My hard limits are scat, blood, crossdressing, anything illegal, and public play.

As a submissive, I enjoy the feeling of surrender and being at someone’s mercy. Activities like being tied up, blindfolded, and feeling helpless excite me. I also have a foot fetish and am open to humiliation and degradation, provided it’s within a safe and respectful framework. My boundaries are flexible, and I’m curious to discover what works for me, as long as my Dom can guide me responsibly.

As a Dom, I love the idea of supporting someone’s growth and building trust. I’m still discovering what it means to lead, but I value mutual respect, consent, and communication. I’m eager to create a safe and enjoyable experience for my partner while also learning more about myself in the process.

A little about my situation: I live with family, so my availability for photos, videos, or live tasks might vary. If something is urgent, I can slip away to take a quick photo or video in the bathroom, but I ask for flexibility since privacy can be a challenge. I also feel shy about speaking English aloud since I’m still improving, but I’m happy to communicate in writing or adjust as needed.

I also want to share that I have a physical disability: a dislocated hip and clubfoot on both feet. I can walk on my own, but my right leg is 4 cm longer than my left, so standing or holding a position for too long can be uncomfortable without shifting weight. I can’t jump or perform very demanding physical tasks. This has caused me some insecurity about my body, so I’d love to find a partner who can help me grow in confidence, whether as a Sub or a Dom.

I’m also working on improving my health and building strength. It would be wonderful if my partner could help me stay motivated with exercise routines or habits that align with our dynamic.

As a submissive, I’m open to creative and unconventional commands, like wearing the same underwear for days, avoiding certain foods, or adhering to strict schedules. I might even explore more extreme acts, like drinking my own urine if my Dom requires it, as the idea of surrendering completely intrigues me.

This is my third time seeking a partner. My first experience was too harsh and left me feeling discouraged, while the second Dom disappeared without explanation. I’m hoping to find someone patient, kind, and consistent who understands my unique situation and wants to build something meaningful.

Whether I’m submitting or leading, I promise to commit fully, communicate openly, and approach this with respect and enthusiasm. I want to create a dynamic that allows us both to grow and explore in a safe and fulfilling way.