Hi,
I am a 25 year old working professional from London. I am looking for an online dom to give my submissive side to. I am not open to romance or one off pump and dumps. I want to be clear right here: I am here for a BDSM power exchange dynamic. I am not here to just be a show-off slut (note: I very much enjoy being a show-off slut, for you sir, but it’s 100x better within a power exchange dynamic), I’m here to submit to an assertive and dominant man. If I don’t feel your dominance, then it doesn’t interest me.
What I offer:
Attentive – I want us to care about each other!
Well-behaved (unless you prefer me not to be).
Communication – it’s the most important thing
Realism – Fantasy is fun but I’m looking for a genuine power exchange and I understand that takes some realism. I am not a mega super sub, I’m not perfect and I don’t expect you to be either.
An eagerness to please and do anything I can to help you feel dominant and powerful – I want to see the dom inside of you unleashed.
Dedicated – I don’t give up easy, I want to improve. I don’t think I am the best sub in the world, but I do strive to be a quality one, I hope you strive to be the best dom you can be.
Trust and loyalty.
What I look like:
Tall, 6ft1in-ish.
White.
Athletic/toned.
Weirdly not very hairy for a man, very little body hair.
Brown hair.
Happy to share (or show off) what I look like early on. I don’t care about
Kinks I am into (don’t worry, none are mandatory, I am very flexible and open to new things):
Psychological play – humiliation, degradation.
Light pain.
Chastity, denial. I’m not a pleasure sub, I care more about pleasing you.
Feminisation (I know some hate this, that’s fine, I can without).
Some TPE.
Discipline, being told off and generally just feeling your firm hand.
Bondage, gags, collars, toys etc.
Aftercare.
Limits/things I don’t like very much:
Scat.
Choking/breath play.
Criticising my appearance.
Excessive pain / CBT.
Other things I really, really enjoy:
Verbal men, hearing your voice.
Dirty talking.
Listening to your fantasies.
Articulate sentences.
Name-calling.
Older (not really important, but if you are <21 and studying then we probably won’t have much in common).
Black men (I know, I know – but not important either, what you look like will never be a negative thing for me).
Vanilla stuff (I hope we find something in common!):
I work in tech.
I workout a lot – at least 4 days a week.
I am interested in all sorts of intellectual topics: philosophy, psychology, economics, culture and history to name a few.
I like video games, maybe I can be your healer >.<
Logistics:
I only use Telegram. No Snap or Discord. If I am showing off, it’s going to be private and secure, just for you.
I don’t care about timezones as long as we can make it work for us. I am in GMT (obviously).
If this interests you somewhat or you read to the end, I am probably very interested in speaking with you! Please send me a message, the more effort the better.
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