Hey there, I'm a 35-year-old chubby guy looking for a strong, dominant male to connect with. I'm based in the Netherlands, and I’m seeking someone who enjoys taking charge and appreciates the dynamics of a power exchange. I’m open to different types of relationships, whether that be casual fun or something that can develop into a long-term dynamic, as long as the foundation of mutual respect and chemistry is there.

Physically, I'm 178cm/110KG, on the chubby side, with a down-to-earth attitude. I’m not comfortable in my own skin and do not enjoy my body, but I’m also open to working on it more, especially if you’re the type who likes to help guide and push your partner to become the best version of themselves. I’m not seeking someone who only focuses on appearance, but someone who values the person behind the body and enjoys the dominance/submission aspect of a connection.

I’m looking for a man who is confident, assertive, and enjoys taking the lead both in and out of the bedroom. I appreciate a partner who knows what he wants, is comfortable giving directions, and enjoys the satisfaction that comes from guiding a partner to where he wants him to be. Whether you’re interested in exploring physical training, setting goals together, or even more intense power exchanges, I’m open to discussions and exploring boundaries to find what works best for us.

I’m a great listener, easy to get along with, and eager to please. For me, connection matters, and I'm seeking someone who appreciates having a submissive who can also hold a conversation and share a laugh. Ideally, you’d be between 25-50 years old, but I’m open as long as the vibe feels right.

If this sounds like the kind of dynamic you enjoy, I’d love to hear from you. Let me know what you’re into, what you're looking for, and let's see if we click. I’m open to chatting first to establish a comfort zone.