Me: I am 49, married, bigger guy, bear type, belly, masculine. I'm a busy CEO, in charge at home and at work and I like it that way. I like to go hard at times, but I always respect limits.

You: Younger than me, thin to slightly chubby. Not feminine, no nail polish, etc. Natural body hair, no shaving (or willing to grow it back for me). You are naturally submissive and obedient, a total people-pleaser.

I am naturally both soft and hard dom. The dynamic I like is one in which we can have conversations about many topics, talk about life, etc, as friends, mixed in with the understanding that I am in charge and you obey when I tell you to do something.

My philosophy of domination is that it must be sustainable. That means we find what works for both of us. My desires are all that matter, not yours...but with that said, I find it always makes subs more controllable and obedient when their freaky little buttons get pushed regularly. It also means that we work around real life things, all of your tasks and orders will be realistic, and that you understand I am a very busy man at times.

I want control over your body. I am not a Dom who is only about pics, but you will show me what I want, when I want. My ability to see whatever part of you I want, when I want it, is part of the control I want. I do have a fetish for feet, so you will be expected to show your feet and legs regularly. Face pics are not mandatory until trust is built, but eventually I would like us to see each others faces. Depending on you and your needs, we can also explore other forms of control. When you respond, begin your reply with "I would like to submit myself" so I know you read this full post.

I am not into: scat, anything dangerous or illegal, anything that risks RL jobs or relationships, and I am not that much into feminization. I am also not into anything that has to do with minors, including any form of roleplay or ageplay that even comes close to it.

One of the most important things is that you must be able to carry on a conversation. I quickly get bored with subs who just respond "Yes sir" over and over again, or long periods of nothing but one or two-word responses. I expect you to communicate, be able to express how you are feeling, and be able to converse on other topics.

Respond by telling me your first name, what you are hoping to find in a Dom, and describe your kinks and limits. Include a pic that shows your body without face, nude or partially clothed is fine but it must include your legs and feet. Let's see if you can be my good boy.