Hi, I’m 18 years old, from Mexico, and I’m new to the BDSM world. I’m looking for a Dom who can help me explore and grow little by little. Because of distance, we would mostly engage online. I don’t have any toys right now, but I am eager to learn and follow orders, even if I have to get creative to fulfill them at home. I ask for patience as I navigate this journey, and I’m open to a lot of things. However, I don’t do crossdressing, scat, blood, or anything public.
I’m attracted to BDSM because I love the feeling of being at someone’s mercy. Being tied up, blindfolded, and helpless excites me, and I also have a strong foot fetish. I’m open to humiliation and degradation. My limits are flexible, and I’m curious to explore new things, but I ask for clear communication along the way to ensure that I’m comfortable progressing.
Regarding photos and videos, I’m okay with sending them, but I’m shy about speaking English because I’m still learning. I live with my family, so sometimes it can be tricky to send media. If it’s urgent, I can sneak into the bathroom to take a picture or a quick video, but I ask for flexibility as it won’t always be possible.
I want to mention that I have a physical disability: hip dislocation and clubfoot on both feet. I can walk on my own and don’t use a wheelchair, but I have some limitations. My right leg is 4 cm longer than the left, so when I stand in the same position for long periods, I need to alternate weight between legs. I can’t jump or do certain physically demanding tasks. I sometimes feel ashamed of my body due to this, and it would mean a lot if my Dom could help me appreciate myself and boost my confidence as we explore BDSM.
I also want a Dom who can support me in building healthier habits, like helping me with my exercise routines. A Dom who can guide me both mentally and physically would be ideal, as I’m trying to improve my health and gain strength.
As for obedience, I’m open to creative orders like wearing the same underwear for a week without washing it, avoiding certain foods, or setting specific times to report in. I can even explore things like drinking my own piss if my master orders it, as I enjoy the idea of being dominated completely.
This is my third attempt at finding a Dom. The first one was too aggressive and made me feel depressed, and the second one disappeared without explanation. I promise to be loyal, obedient, and accepting of discipline if it helps me improve.
I’m seeking a patient Dom who understands my unique situation, and who can guide me not only in BDSM but also in self-growth and health. I’m eager to learn and submit, but I need someone who can help me feel good about myself while helping me become a better sub."
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