Hi there, firstly some short information details about me that will help you understand my POV by all my kinks and maybe some difficulties diving into it with you without insecurities:

• I'm 100% gay
• I'm (really) slim and I recently started going to the gym and wanting to become athletic
• I'm not really tall, about 171 cm (5'7"), a pretty narrow build body and I got green eyes with a brown ring in the middle of my iris, blonde-brown fluffy hair, a kind of cute face I'd say and above average looking (in the gay world hihi)
• I'm in the European time zone (no red flag if your not btw)
• Speaking german, english and a bit spanish (still learning spanish, fluent in the other two)
• I've got experience as a (kinky) boyfriend -3 relationships so far - where I explored most of my kinks which I listed down below
• I'm kind of shy when I don't know you AND in the beginning - you for example only want me to invest in our trust building relationship by sending pics or other stuff

I'm - like I said - really kinky and looking to meet really open guys about my fetishes. Trust is really important because I am a kind of "brat", but would enjoy more and more being mindlessly submissive for your will and demands IF there is a trusting foundation and we match energies.

I really enjoy being needy and clingy, which can sometimes lead to being insecure about our status of our thing - you know? I'm really giving with my energy and would like to get back your energy to. I wanna work for it, maybe beg for it and I sometimes like being "safely" ignored. But its a tricky thing because if I get too insecure I may run away or become scared. So there has to be some sort of consent in you ignoring me and me begging and craving your attention while maybe u even laughing at me.
Don't get me wrong, I sure do want you do like me kind of (ofc less than I like you) the same because I want to build something relevant and safe with you where we BOTH can enjoy without having to feel like the other person going away.

I like having some mental connection as well as a physical. I want you to see me as pretty, yet silly and a plaything. Yet I still wanna worship your aura, your being and all of you. Your body including. I wanna show my body off to you. I wanna see you enjoying me almost or literally drooling because I'm hypnotized (maybe even really hihi) by our connection. I wanna push my and your fetish "list" and experience like I did it with my Ex's. I was the driving force, what you maybe can see while reading through my "kink list" below. You don't have to be experienced with all my kinks, but I would like you to have a strong vibe to you that catches me.

This is my first longer post here btw, so I don't really know if that will be all or if I'm going to update this in the future :)

Here's my kink list:

• Feet
• Socks
• Shoes (specific)
• CBT
• Ballbusting (not combined with cock torture)
• Humiliation in general
• Being laughed at
• Food play
• Nipple play
• TPE (newbie, after trust is build)
• JOI
• Being silly, goofy & dumb
• Spit
• Dominance (ofc)
• Dom/ Sub
• Slave/ Master
• Handcuffs
• Bondage
• Outdoor
• Toys (I got a lot)
• Edging
• Gooning
• Orgasm control
• Orgasm denial
• Scam (specific topic)
• Blackmail (specific topic)
• CNC (consensual no consent)
• Being insulted
• Getting kink shamed
• Being called good boy / Praised
• Praising
• Farts
• Piss
• Toilet play (for example licking it)
• Getting filmed
• Verbal degradation
• Tease and denial
• Bathroom denial
• Having a bully / being bullied
• Locktober
• No Nut November
• Chastity
• Fin-dom (sort of a newbie, after trust is build)
• Pupplay
• Being ur pet/ dog
• Barking for you
• Armpits
• Worshipping tasks
• Having a keyholder
• Ruined orgasms
• Verbal abuse
• Mental abuse
• Sexuality shaming
• Looks shaming
• SPH / UPH (small / ugly penis humiliation --> my cock is big and I'd say pretty but still love it)
• Blindfolded
• Ignorance
• Obeying
• Hypno / having a Tist (newbie, after trust is build)
• Choking
• Light branding (me writing stuff on me is a huge turn on)
• Clamps
• Ball weights
• Psychological torture/ bullying
• Gaslighting
• Psychological games
• Role playing
• Teacher / Student
• Trampling (ballbusting / foot fetish oriented)
• Wax
• Gentle/ romantic play (yes that too)
• Light feminization
• Cumplay
• Inforced rules
• Inforced gym exercise
• Public control of my wallet (newbie, after trust is build)
• Public control of my sex life (newbie, after trust is build)
• Control of diet (newbie, after trust is build)
• Control of finances (newbie, after trust is build)
• Control of what I buy / I spend my money on (newbie, after trust is build)
• Control of daily life (newbie, after trust is build)
• CMNM (clothed male naked male)
• Power imbalances in general
• Pixelated pictures (feet, armpits etc.)
• When you smoke (not really sure because I care for your health tho)
• Pain Play/ Torture
• Pig slave training (newbie, after trust is build)
• Pup slave training
• Slave training
• Drone programming (newbie, after trust is build)
• Gimp training (newbie, after trust is build)
• Objectification
• Licking cum
• Rimming
• Diaper
• Showing off
• Kneeling (omg fuck haha I love it)
• Voyeur
• Exhibitionist
• if you say stuff like "come n take a whiff" or something like that (foot fetish/ socks/ shoes/ armpits)

I discover more every week so might not be updated right away :0

I'm sometimes desperate to chat so please have mercy if I'm a bit "pushy". It's just because I'm craving a deeper connection to someone who understands my kinks and myself.

Further, I'm really sorry but I won't like it if your cubby or fat. I'm really sorry but I care about MY and YOUR health over all and I wanna be a "good boy".

That's my biggest wish to hear that from you.

Sorry I don't know if someone reads this far but if so, I'd like to hear your thoughts about all this in my PM's or under this post.

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