The following post will be lengthy, which is necessary for me to convey exactly what I seek. However, as there is a fair amount of reading in an online dynamic, you might as well get used to it now. Read this carefully--Read this twice, if need be.
I am an experienced online Dominant (or Remote Controller) who currently has a 24/7 position open for a plus-sized man with a strong will to serve, please, and learn--all while being right at my fingertips through exclusively online communication (yes, it is just as real as in-person). Please note that due to the nature of a 24/7 dynamic, your time zone should be close to mine, which is Central.
This is not going to focus on sex, kink or be a BDSM-centric. There will be no "toys" or chastity belts involved.8
This will not be egalitarian (meaning we are not equals) so the only "Give and take" will be me giving the instructions and directives and you taking them. This is about ME, after all!
Finally, if you cannot let go of your own routines and preferences, this is NOT for you. Things will change.
Section I - IMPORTANT REQUIREMENTS These are NOT suggestions; I am unwilling to make exceptions for those who do not match even ONE of the below.
1. You must ALREADY be plump/heavyset starting at 240-250lbs and upward; if you appear blatantly "fat" with a plump face and even double chins, you are on the right track!
If you are actively losing pounds, that defeats the purpose. If you are not already within the preferred range, I do not intend to wait for you to gain the necessary weight.
2. Be single AND live by yourself; private rooms with people still around do NOT count.
If you are constantly busy with an always-filled schedule, it will NOT work. For this sort of ongoing dynamic, your constant availability is required!8
3. You must own business/office attire--regardless of whether you normally wear such attire or not, it will become your day-to-day wear. If you do not already own this attire, waiting for you to obtain it is not an option.
I speak of suits, neckties, dress shirts, and dress footwear (among your other types of footwear, though I exclude sandals and flip-flops). Bonus points should you own
4. Be clean-shaven (no facial hair). Not willing to shave? Walk on by.
5. Have a webcam with a microphone--most ideally, a smart device.
Section II - ABOUT ME
- I operate MY way, not according to mainstream practices and terminology.
- This is not just some "role" or "scene" and I am not here to "play".
I am not the "rough" sort--as assertive and adamant as I am, no insults, humiliation, or degradation will be involved.
I am not here to provide you with what you think you want, but with what I want you to have and what I think you need!
I am not a top seeking a bottom. I am not a daddy seeking a son. I do not seek an it, a boy or boi, or any other such self-imposed persona. Just an obedient and subservient plus-sized man.8
I am not looking for some horny man who thinks I am here to cater to their fantasies, fetishes, and kinks. I look for one who is naturally and purely obedient, and who needs nothing more than to cater to ME without hesitance and without judgment.
Section III - WHAT I SEEK IN A CHUBBY SUBMISSIVE
Along with matching the requirements of Section I, you must have realized and accepted your true submissive nature--which is to serve in any way, shape, and form to ensure MY happiness! Without question but with endurance, commitment, and pure servility. You should be one who puts others first and yourself out of the equation--SELFLESS and not SELFISH. Your need to provide service should be what drives you and your life--realizing that having the security to learn and serve daily is its own reward. No matter how big or small the tasks are, you should be a reliable, receptive, and loyal plus-sized man who dutifully answers "How high?" at the command to jump. Your need and will to provide service must be strong and unwavering, and powered by your heart and mind, not your penis--in other words, you realize that you are providing service for the sake of SERVICE and not sex.8 To approach me with your own selfish wants and desires, and with conditions for your obedience, will not gain my consideration. Rather, you should be a blank slate on which I put my own customizations and alterations. In short: Just do as you're told and we will get along just fine!
To add, your genuine subservient nature must be inherent and unable to "turn off"--in other words, you must not identify as a "switch" or operate from a situational "sub-space".
Section IV - WHAT TO EXPECT
Through Instant Messaging, Email, and video chat, the right candidate will, with each passing day, have their routines, behavior, appearance...whatever else I prefer...shaped to my liking through my brand of Online Training & Control. It will cover and entail:
- Behavior & Etiquette
- Mindset Growth
- Mentorship
- Rules & Protocols
- Wardrobe Control (with a mandatory Suit & Tie Dress Code)
- Tasks (including those that are Videographic & Photographic)8
- General Customization
- General Servitude (including over webcam)
Section V - IN CONCLUSION
If you have just skimmed through this, go back up there and read this entire thing like I said. It is important if you wish to serve me.8
As I am choosy, not every candidate who approaches me will be considered, ESPECIALLY if they do not match and respect ALL of the above criteria (begging that I give you a chance will not cut it). I am in this for the long run so I must make my choice count!
PLEASE do not approach me if you are not serious about beginning service with me--that includes being wishy-washy or just curious to try. In short--let us not waste time!
If you have any mental baggage or hang-ups that will hinder your service to me, perhaps this isn't for you.
If you KNOW you are prepared, use your first message to explain why you have approached me and how you believe you are the one to serve me by telling me how you match Section I; describe the business attire and footwear you own. Just get right to it--no small chit-chat.
Finally, just so I know you were paying attention: how many 8s, including this one, were featured in this post?
I look forward to molding my chubby lump of clay!
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